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女权主义者的性欲观

2019年9月23日 - 健康要闻
女权主义者的性欲观

女权主义者的性欲观(读书笔记:杰茜卡瓦伦蒂:《正面全裸的女权主义》)笔者直接以为,女权主义者都是些身穿男子西装剪着老公发型叼着香烟不刮腋毛的中性人,直到读了瓦伦蒂那本《正面全裸的女权主义》。今后才掌握过来,原本女权主义者也有七情六欲的!不止如此,她们的欲望比平日女人越来越直白,更加强势,更自私。瓦伦蒂用了总体三个章节来阐释女权主义的性欲观。标题是《女权主义者更专长干这件事(以及别的关于性的提示)FEMINISTS
DO IT BETTE牧马人 (AND OTHE兰德汉兰达 SEX
TIPS)》。她开门见山就作者炫丽“作者在床的面上比你行,而那得归功于女权主义。”(I’m
better in bed than you are. And I have feminism to thank for
it.)今世男权社会对女孩子有一种自相争论的双重标准:一方面,女生在大庭广众收受“守贞教育”,深夜则在电视上见到“女孩也疯狂”的广告。一方面,女孩被教育说婚前性行为是反常的,另一方面又报告您,你若想产生一名春假辣妹,你尽快对着镜头宽衣解带吧!(When
you’re getting abstinence-only education during the day and Girls Gone
Wild commercials at night, it’s not exactly easy to develop a healthy
sexuality. You’re taught that sex before marriage is bad bad bad, but
that if you want to be a springbreak hottie, you’d better start making
out for the
camera.)守贞史学家是那般来教育女人的:“你们的身体正是一根棒棒糖。当你们与娃他爹爆发性关系时,他剥去你的糖衣,含吮起来。当时或者感到没有错,可缺憾的是,他与你完事后,你们留给下一人伴侣的即是衣冠不整,口水臭味的残渣。”(“Your
body is a wrapped lollipop. When you have sex with a man, he unwraps
your lollipop and sucks on it. It may feel great at the time, but
unfortunately, when he’s done with you, all you have left for your next
partner is a poorly wrapped, saliva-fouled sucker.
“)够耸人据悉的。可是女权主义者不吃这一套。瓦伦蒂建议的口号是:“小编的处女膜小编做主!(Our
Hymens, Ourselves
)”她说:“作者未曾闹领悟处女贞操有啥大不断,真的。作者的贞节在中学时期就被一名男朋友没怎么费力就夺去了。大家后来还约会了几许年呢。小编还以为会有怎么样特殊的认为吧,未有。小编总认为这种把处女贞操当成如花似玉二回事很鸠拙。所以你能够想像,当自个儿发掘本身原本是被用过即弃的杂质时有多愕然。”(I
have never really understood what the big deal was about virginity.
Really. Mine was lost without a great deal of fanfare to a high school
boyfriend whom I dated for several years afterward. I expected to feel
different—I didn’t. The whole precious-flower-virginity thing always
seemed silly to me. So imagine my surprise when I found out that I was
just a used-up piece of trash without
it.)笔者相比纳闷的是,女权主义者总体上是鄙夷男士的。然而在拍卖本身的情欲时,她们对男人的姿态显著又是另一番景色。诚然,她们与男子上床,再亦非为了讨好郎君,更不是为了薪火相传,而纯粹是为着协和的欢悦。用瓦伦蒂露骨的话,正是:一边做女权主义者,一边打炮!(f***ing
while feminist
!)只是,面前蒙受一个人性欲如此高涨态度如此强势的女权主义床伴,哪壹位小男生消受得起?

瓦伦蒂用了百分百三个章节来论述女权主义的性欲观。标题是《女权主义者更善于干那件事(以及其他关于性的唤起)FEMINISTS
DO IT BETTETucson (AND OTHEKoleos SEX TIPS)》。

(部分翻译仅凭个人感到,不完全根据原来的小说翻译)


今世男权社会对女人有一种自相顶牛的双重规范:一方面,女孩子在众目睽睽接受“守贞教育”,晚上则在电视上看出“女孩也疯狂”的广告。一方面,女孩被教育说婚前性行为是畸形的,另一方面又报告您,你若想成为一名春假辣妹,你尽快对着镜头宽衣解带吧!(When
you’re getting abstinence-only education during the day and Girls Gone
Wild commercials at night, it’s not exactly easy to develop a healthy
sexuality. You’re taught that sex before marriage is bad bad bad, but
that if you want to be a springbreak hottie, you’d better start making
out for the camera.)

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Forgive my sensitive.

够耸人听说的。可是女权主义者不吃这一套。瓦伦蒂提出的口号是:“作者的处女膜作者做主!(Our
Hymens, Ourselves )

Watching the same things happen again and again, I began to see
reality as a gorgeous perpetual motion machine, in which causes become
effects that become causes of new effects, and so on.

What I really want to say is the next:

”她说:“笔者未有闹精晓处女贞操有哪些大不断,真的。作者的贞操在中学时代就被一名男朋友没怎么费劲就夺去了。我们后来还约会了某个年吗。笔者还感到会有啥新鲜的感觉呢,未有。我总以为这种把处女贞操当成如花似玉三次事很呆笨。所以您能够虚拟,当本身开采自个儿原本是被用过即弃的废品(或棒棒糖)时有多愕然。”(I
have never really understood what the big deal was about virginity.
Really. Mine was lost without a great deal of fanfare to a high school
boyfriend whom I dated for several years afterward. I expected to feel
different—I didn’t. The whole precious-flower-virginity thing always
seemed silly to me. So imagine my surprise when I found out that I was
just a used-up piece of trash (or candy) without it.)

In gaining this perspective, I began to experience painful moments in a
radically different way. Instead of feeling frustrated or overwhelmed, I
saw pain as nature’s reminder that there is something important for me
to learn. Encountering pains and figuring out the lessons they were
trying to give me became sort of a game to me.

Now I am going to say a long story about me.I really hope you could
read it.

近日才领会过来,原本女权主义者也可以有七情六欲的!不止如此,她们的私欲比常常女人越来越直接,越来越强势,更自私。

And the people one meets at the top aren’t necessarily more special
than those one meets at the bottom or in between.

Then I’m going to tell you those men who said love me.Indeed they said
that ,but it is ture or not is quite a different matter.I’m not
interested in them.

自身相比较纳闷的是,女权主义者总体上是看不起男子的。不过在管理本人的性欲时,她们对先生的神态明朗又是另一番山水。诚然,她们与先生上床,再亦非为了取悦郎君,更不是为着传宗接代,而纯粹是为了自身的满面红光。用瓦伦蒂露骨的话,就是:一边做女权主义者,一边打炮!(Fucking
while feminist !)

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Having the basics—a good bed to sleep in, good relationships, good
food, and good sex—is most important, and those things don’t get much
better when you have a lot ofmoney or much worse when you have less.

I  think I do care about you very much.Otherwise I won’t explain
anything.No metter how you are feeling now,I ‘m ok with that.Actually
I don’t look forward to anything else.that is enough for me to see you
on the screen.

本身直接感觉,女权主义者都以些身穿男人西装剪着相爱的人发型叼着烟卷不刮腋毛的中性人,直到读了瓦伦蒂那本《正面全裸的女权主义》。

In my early years, I looked up to extraordinarily successful people,
thinking that they were successful because they were extraordinary.
After I got to know such people personally, I realized that all of
them—like me, like everyone—make mistakes, struggle with their
weaknesses, and don’t feel that they are particularly special or great.
They are no happier than the rest of us, and they struggle just as much
or more than average folks. Even after they surpass their wildest
dreams, they still experience more struggle than glory. This has
certainly been true for me.

After my ex boy friend broke up with me .It hurt me a lot.I suffered the
depression.My families still don’t know nowdays.A lot of times I
wanted to kill myself.In a snow night,I went outside feeling nothing is
worth to make me stay and wanted to end my life.When I walked down the
road to a streetlight,I found an amazing scene.It looked so beautiful
that the snowflakes were flying under the light.It is the most
beautiful thing in the world at that time.
I want to say it saved my
life .I told my myself,” as long as there are still beautiful thing
existing,even if there is only one,It’s worth keeping me living in this
world.
“So I didn’t do that stupid thing.

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